Went to pat the mare yesterday and started my experiment of how best to tend to the child while getting horsey time in.
When we see Gus, M2 graciously logs some time with Cayla, leaving my hands (and brain) free to play with mr man - but I haven't really devised a plan for childcare while I tend to the Big Mare.
Once we're back riding regularly, I think babysitters will be involved, but until then I feel like it's totally possible for me to balance baby, mare and random barn chores. Last time I had the baby at the barn, I left her in her car seat and just placed her somewhere near me - office, outside the stall, arena....
It worked pretty well, but I felt like I was running around always toting something be it my groom box or car seat, or whatever. Didn't seem very efficient, so yesterday I threw the baby in her front pack and figured I would just wear her the whole time.
For the most part this worked great, she snoozes like a beast in that thing, so she was happy and quiet the entire time which takes care of my primary concern regarding having the baby in public with me. It also kept her off the ground and away from hooves, which takes care of a major concern about having her out at the barn.
However, what it didn't take care of was keeping Cayla hidden from Prair's big, snuffly beak. I don't know if Prair remains fascinated by the baby, or if she was just convinced that the front pack must have been some new giant treat dispenser, but the mare was adamant that her nose be shoved inside it, which resulted in a very slobbery (though undamaged) baby head.
Other than the baby slobber, the front pack was a good solution while Prair is off from work and my "barn days" consist of nothing more than grooming cleaning (already clean) tack and watching other people ride. I did have to be a tad careful when I bent over to pick feet, but the baby didn't fall out, so no harm done.
Later in the day we went out as a family and The Boy put the baby back in her front pack, which did look a little.... grimy after the barn adventure. Admittedly, Cayla herself smelled a tad horsey, which I assume can also be blamed on the massive dust cloud that was coming off Prair while we curried the crap out of her dirty, dirty coat. The mare slobber probably didn't help either...
All in all, getting better at the whole barn baby thing. I don't know how you moms do it!
I am sure horse slobber is actually quite therapeutic for babies :)
ReplyDeleteOmg that's so cute that she loves your bebeh!
ReplyDeleteHorsey smelling baby powder... that's a thing right?
ReplyDeleteThis is awesome. I'm 12 weeks today (!!) and have been stressing about how I can handle the horsey chores. Looks like I don't need to stress!! Loving the "baby didn't fall out when I picked hooves" part :p
ReplyDeleteLove love love that last photo especially! I'm impressed you were able to carry her without interfering in barn chores!
ReplyDeleteHorse slobber is good for babies.. I mean, it's gotta be, right?
ReplyDeleteCayla will have the best immune system wait & see; especially with Prairie on hand to pay extra close attention to minding her.
ReplyDeleteThey are both too cute!!!
Agreed about the good immune system! Horse slobber is good for everything!
ReplyDeleteSooo cute!!
ReplyDeleteYay barn baby!! I have 2 of them :)
Lol very cute, glad she does the front carrier well, that helps. Before they are mobile barn chores are pretty easy to finagle. Once they're big enough to move, you find new things like playing in the corner of the arena (hello awesome sandbox to a toddler) with trainer/ friend supervison of course. Our barns horses are totally kid proofed with as many barn babies are cropping up ;)
ReplyDeleteI took my baby to the barn for quick carrot visits, but I never got the barn chores thing down. I didn't feel comfortable handling my horse with her in the carrier (and I have a very reliable quarter horse). I had to juggle baby with grandparents or Daddy, which was not easy because everyone works so I often had to see my horse after dark.
ReplyDeleteGlad you are making it work. My favorite baby carrier is the Ergobaby. It is super comfy, even when the baby passes the 12 pound mark.
omg Prair is sooo cute with the baby !!
ReplyDeleteI mean, you need to break Cayla in early to love the barn smell, so it's probably all in all a good decision to bring her :D
ReplyDeleteSound like the experiment went great!!!! Prairie is so cute!!!!
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